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May 19, 2019

#RomBkLove: Communities

Welcome to Day #19 of #RomBkLove.  The brain-child of blogger, book reviewer and librarian, Ana Coqui, is celebrating it's third year.  You can read all about the #RomBkLove movement and see this year's prompts over at her blog.  Also, when participating via social media, be sure to use the hashtag!

When Ana approached me about signing on again for this year I paused for more than a hot minute, took stock, and knew that even though my life and reading is kind of topsy-turvy at the moment, I couldn't say no. Of course the next question was: what theme did I want to discuss?  I thought about some of my favorite reads from 2018 and realized it had to be Communities.

I'd hazard a guess that the first thing that comes to mind when many of you think of communities in romance is Small Town Contemporaries.  Some readers love them. Some readers wonder why the heck they remain so popular.  And I'm here to tell you the answer: it's the world building.  It's the same reason why every flippin' romance novel is part of a series.  Readers LOVE to lose themselves in "a world."  They want to fall into a story and have the author create a world that they can lose themselves in.  And certainly while many Small Town Contemporaries do just that - with this theme I want to challenge Romancelandia.  Because there are many romances out there, not set in small town worlds, where the author creates a rich, full community for readers to lose themselves in.

Here are a just a few examples:
  • Beverly Jenkins is the Queen Mother of community-based romance.  I'm still working my way through her historical backlist, but every single one I've read features a support network, a community, around her main couple.  My favorite (so far) has been Indigo, where the heroine is part of the Underground Railroad network, along with many of her neighbors outside of Ann Arbor, Michigan.  Another good Jenkins example?  Always and Forever.  A less successful book for me, personally, but one I always like to recommend to Small Town Contemporary fans.  Why?  Because a good chunk of the story involves a group of women on a wagon train traveling west to become mail-order brides.  That wagon train is essentially a small town on wheels, right down to the various personalities.  
  • Tiffany Girl by Deeanne Gist is set in New York City and finds the heroine taking a job in Louis Comfort Tiffany's glassworks (one community) and living in a boardinghouse (another community).  I LOVED the boardinghouse community in this one, filled with eccentric and interesting tenants, one of whom is the hero.
  • Off Limits by Vanessa North centers around a ladies social club that caters to LGBTQIA+ members. One heroine is a concierge at the club by day, and by night she's moonlighting as the singer of a punk band.  The other heroine is the only child of Hollywood royalty.  Set in New York City, I loved the world of the social club that the author builds. There's also the community between the punk singer heroine and her band mates.  Part fluffy, part angsty, I highly recommend this F/F romance.
  • Everything I Left Unsaid by Molly O'Keefe is the first book in a four-book series where a heroine running away from an abusive marriage holes up in a rundown trailer park.  It's the people she meets in that trailer park that form a community and change the course of her life forever.
  • Seduced by the Badge by Deborah Fletcher Mello is the first book in a romantic suspense series set in Chicago.  The community building here is part family, the cop hero's siblings all work in some form of civil service, and part nefarious, the center of the suspense action takes place at a local diner.  The diner, not unusual for many cities and towns, features regular clientele and staff who add richness to the story.
  • Passion's Song by Farrah Rochon is set in New Orleans' Ninth Ward post-Hurricane Katrina.  The successful hero has bought up some property where he envisions a gentrification project of housing and upscale shops.  The classically trained cellist heroine is volunteering at a local community-based organization working to keep kids off the streets and out of trouble.  The city and the Ninth Ward add color, flavor and texture to the Friends To Lovers romance, and immerse the reader in the sights, sounds and smells of New Orleans.
These are just a few examples, and ones that I hope illustrate what I'm driving at with the Communities theme.  "Community" doesn't just mean cutesy small towns and picket fences.  City neighborhoods, diners, coffee shops, "band of brothers"-type series - community is expansive.  So let's hit the #RomBkLove social media tag and expound on books that really hit us with that sense of community.

May 13, 2018

#RomBkLove: Day 13 Closed Door

#RomBkLove is a social media hashtag and brainchild of Ana Coqui.  Last year she hosted an entire month (all by herself!) of romance novel-related chatter on Twitter and I'm sure needed about a 2-month long nap afterward to recover.  So when she opted to host the month-long extravaganza again this year - she asked for help, with themes and with hosting.  So here were are, on Day #13 and my contribution: "closed door" romances.

People, I have a lot to say on this topic and will try not to slip into deep ranting mode, although it's going to be hard (ha!).  I truly believe that the only thing romance novels have to have, what they have to adhere to, is the happy-ever-after.  Our romantic couple needs to ride off into the sunset at the end.  This leaves a lot of shading in between for the author to write the story that they wanna tell.

This is paraphrased: There's a moment in the documentary, Love Between the Covers, where author Eloisa James asks an aspiring writer, "Are you selling this to the inspirational market?  Because if not, it has to have sex."

I'm beginning to think I'm the only one who was heavily annoyed by this "advice," because nobody else called it out (that I've seen anyway).  If anything, trolling through GoodReads only seems to enforce James' advice.  How many of us have seen the reviews: "This was a terrible book - it had NO sex scenes!"  So the book was "bad" because you didn't get to read a sex scene?  Really?!  Because this makes me question why you're reading romance.  If you're just "in it" for the sex - there's alternatives outside of the romance genre.  Just sayin'.

Now before anyone makes the erroneous assumption that I'm a prude who doesn't like the dirty words and smexy times - ha ha ha ha ha!  It is to laugh.  I'm one of what I'm beginning to think is a dying breed in romance readership.  The reader who will, literally, read across the entire sensuality spectrum.  Skanky hot sex scenes that would horrify my father?  Yep.  Sweet, just kisses that I'd be OK with my niece discovering on my bookshelf?  Yep.  I'll read it all.  I've loved it all - and Auntie Wendy is here to tell you why.

At the end of the day, it's about the story.  One thing romance readers and writers have been chaffing against since the dawn of time is this idea that romance is cookie-cutter.  It's one thing and one thing only.  Yes, it's the happy ending - but we're literally serving all sorts of cocktails (ha!) and I guarantee there's something on the menu for darn near every taste and preference.

Sex, like anything else in fiction writing, needs to be organic to the story.  Some stories need the hot and steamy sexy times - while in other stories such shenanigans would feel out of place.  There is nothing worse, in my opinion, than reading a very good story to only get to a love scene that feels shoe-horned in and "out of place" - like the author had to fill a quota.  Or the other side of the coin: a very good story that desperately needs a love scene that doesn't have one.  Yes, it can happen folks - I know this because I've read examples of both.

If you take nothing else away from Day 13, I hope it's this: Just because a book doesn't have sex scenes in it doesn't make it "bad."  Just because a book has wall-to-wall sexy shenanigans doesn't make it "bad."  At the end of the day, it's about the storyWhat best serves the story?

Now, to get this party started, I'm going to mention a few of my favorite "Closed Door" romances.  I hope you'll have time to stop by Twitter today to follow along with all the discussion - which you can do without an account.  Just check out the #RomBkLove hashtag.

Some of Wendy's Favorite Closed Door Romances:

  • Maid to Match by Deeanne Gist - set at the Biltmore mansion, a "downstairs" romance.
  • Janice Kay Johnson - check out any of her SuperRomances.  When she does write sex, it tends to be G-rated and she writes some of the best darn conflict in the genre.  She's criminally under-appreciated.
  • Someone more well-versed than I will have to pick up this mantle on Twitter - but seriously, SO MANY TRAD REGENCIES!